Amanda Blaine (Independent Trainer)

Location: Online (live)

   online video via phone, tablet, or computer
Amanda's website
More info and registration for this group
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Date and Time:

   Tue, Apr 23, 2019

12:30 - 2:30 PM PST Tuesdays, April 23 - June 25


  I’ll ask you to consider “What amount feels like a meaningful and exciting amount to invest in my fullest expression, and in the emergence of what wants to move through me into the world?”


   Does this sound like you?

You got super fired up about Nonviolent Communication. You could see how transformational it was.

The ideas all made SO MUCH SENSE. You dove in head first.

But at some point, you lost steam.

Do you just need to try harder? Or maybe you’re not good enough at it yet?

I want you to know:

1. There’s absolutely nothing wrong with you.


2. You’re right that NVC could make a huge impact in your life, for the better.

But it’s not that you need to work harder, or that there’s something wrong with you.

My hunch is that you need support, and if you’re like the vast majority of people in our culture, you don’t have nearly enough of it.

We’re not meant to grow alone. It’s a physiological fact - our bodies don’t work that way!
Join us in a community of (real, live) support.

From someone who's currently in the group: “I'm consistently nourished and amazed by the quality of connection and support we are finding for one another. And I'm drawn to the perpetual opportunities for growth and learning on both a personal level and as a facilitator/leader/teacher. ”


- The foundation of our community is our weekly meetings. We meet 2 hours a week.

- You also meet at least one other 30 - 60 minute time in the week (on your own schedule) for one-on-one structured empathy time with an empathy buddy

What is the time commitment?

- 2 hours 15 minutes for a 2 hour group session (the 15 minutes is so you can arrive on time, ready, and don't need to rush off the second it's over)
- 30 - 60 minutes scheduled empathy time with a buddy outside of group time
- 10 minutes (or more) per day of regular self-connection practice (could be meditation or walking or dancing - as long as the express purpose is becoming aware of your inner state)
- some amount of energy/time towards supporting the others in the group, which might be zero on some weeks and might be more on other weeks, depending on your availability and the level of need.

The 2 hour weekly session has a simple format. We check in at the beginning of the session and hear what's most alive for each person this week, and what support or learning might best serve each person in what they're facing. Then we take turns focusing on one (or more) of the questions/inquiries/situations that the group members bring.

Sometimes each person in the group gets a turn receiving the group's attention. Less often, we dedicate a large part of the two hours to one person's particular inquiry, and everyone ends up having a role in their support (often, much to their own surprise!). Each session usually includes some time where we're all together, and some time in pairs or smaller groups to dive into an exercise or practice.

Usually everyone receives some benefit, even when the issue isn't "theirs".

By choosing to join this group, you are saying yes to:

- Meeting for least one scheduled empathy time per week with an another human outside of our group meeting time (don't worry if you don't have this already, we'll set it up)
- Tracking yourself and noticing when you're needing help
- Reaching out to other members of the group (or another person you trust) for emergency support/empathy when you need it EVEN OUTSIDE OF GROUP TIME
- Being an active part of this community of support, showing up and supporting others, both during the meeting time and throughout the week (when you have the capacity and spaciousness)
- Committing  to your own open-heartedness, growth, and transformation
- Choosing your significance as a practice, which means having the intention to act as if you matter even when you don’t think you do or don’t have a felt sense that you do.
- Arranging your commitments so that you can be on time, resourced, and focused during this two hour session (barring emergencies).

This group is NOT for you if:
- You haven’t yet integrated at least a beginner understanding of Nonviolent (Compassionate) Communication. (Not sure? Email me and I’d be happy to discuss with you.)
- You don’t want to invest time, energy, and money in your own growth and transformation right now.
- You don't ever want to receive the group's attention, or focus on something in your life. While there's rarely time for every single person to have a dedicated group time in each session, most people get support every other or every third time. You might want more or less than this, but if you NEVER want a turn, this wouldn't be a good fit for you.
- The thought of attending to someone else's nervous system for most or part of the session seems intolerable to you. (If so, you might prefer one-on-one coaching with me or someone else).
- You want an exclusive NVC-focus. The group is needs-based and draws on many tools, including NVC, family or systemic constellations, Interpersonal Neurobiology, and other tools.
- This group happens on video. You will need to have access to a phone, tablet, or computer where you can both see and be seen.

"I am having difficulty finding the right words to communicate how different my experience of life has been since that session. You are a masterful facilitator and I am blessed to have met you."
- Lori W.

“Amanda is a blessing to behold! She has a masterful fluency of both inner, emotional work, as well as community and global systems --understanding the essentialness and interconnection of both. I have so thoroughly enjoyed working with Amanda.”
- Jenny G.


  • The group is limited to 10 people.

Who is it for?

  Some of the people in this community have been participating together for several years. Over time a rich web of robust connections has formed, beyond just our group times on Tuesdays. We’ve got a few spots open for new members and we are eager to welcome folks who are drawn to the possibility of developing deep connections through doing this work together. We also want to make sure you are aware that this is not like joining a traditional class - there are a lot of relationships already in place. In the past, newcomers have sometimes felt “outside,” which has been painful for them and for the old-timers who want to be in connection with them. We really want new folks to join and so we are experimenting with putting in a buddy system for new folks to have an old-timer who can check in on them. If this feels like match for you, wonderful!

Registration and deposit info:

   Are you interested to learn more, and see if it's a fit for you? You can find more info and the link to apply here: